A 12-year-old dives full-extension for a perfect game. My video game league can't finish a match without someone quitting. Same kids, opposite behaviors. The difference? Environment shapes commitment
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Why would a kid who knows how to catch the ball let it drop? What I learned about shame, resilience, and making it safe to try.
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Controlling screen time may not be enough to produce the outcome you want for your kids. In this article I share a new way of thinking about how to make sure our kids get their social development needs met.
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When I read something outrageous, it can take some serious effort not to start lashing out and acting angry myself. That is rarely productive. The best way I've found to handle it is to focus on helping people.
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I learned from baseball that simple rules can produce complex behaviors that are pretty smart under pressure. Here are my three simple rules for managing video game time.
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Bringing back fun and playing together does not always require video games or much money. Sometimes a hose and a patch of dirt can create an unforgettable childhood experience.
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